This week I want to talk about belonging. I say frequently that being part of my group “feeds my soul”. Several times this year I have spent time with a group of girlfriends (even though I never feel I get to spend enough time with them)! Just being with these gals and hanging out for a few days makes me belong….my need to be part of the group!
Why is belonging so important to us as people? How can we make better use of our time together and truly feel part of that group? Your group accepts you for who you are, pays attention to you and supports you in ways that you may not get without this interaction.
Often our biggest sense of belonging first come from a group that we share a “commonality” with. These are others who might be in our same business, have our same interests or have shared goals. Then we also have a need to seek out a long-lasting relationship with others. By being part of a group, we feel that we are part of something that is bigger and more important than ourselves.
Being part of a group to get a true sense of belonging does require some work from you. You have to make an effort and put yourself out there. You also have to have patience and accept others. Focusing on the connection that you have to someone else may open your eyes to something new!
I truly feel that the pandemic was a problem for many people…that we all missed each other more than we thought possible. Did you find yourself scheduling calls with others, texting or calling more frequently to stay connected? I have heard the term “vital engagement” numerous times and how it creates a true connection. So, consider your belonging and how it relates to you overall because I think it will help to bring out your “best self”!
